Child psychologists discuss three styles of
parenting—authoritarian, permissive, and authoritative. Authoritarian parents
may say things that are true, but fail to be kind. Authoritarian parents are
known as condescending, argumentative, and abrasive. Permissive parents may be
kind, but fail to have truth and wisdom. Permissive parents sometimes try so
hard to be their children’s friends that they neglect boundaries and structure.
Authoritative parents have a better blend of kindness and truth. They make sure
that children understand the reason for the rules, and they want to keep their
children safe and healthy.
In higher education, an authoritative approach is
constructive as well. When we balance kindness and truth, we help students to
feel respected. As we create a safe environment for students to do their best
work, students can thrive at Nashville State Community College.
